Eight years, a happy home and a baby Unerfusser on the way. It has been the two of us, moving through life, stopping only occasionally to smell the new landscaping we seem to continuously let die.
We almost died trying to build a home together (or killed each other...depending on perspective) and at the end of the day, that is where I'm trying to get too. Not so much to the house itself, more to get to him as he is home to me now.
He has grown into the husband that I knew he would be all along, and somewhere along the way, the 25 year old who was more wrapped up in his friends, has turned into a 33 year old who drives his pregnant wife 10 miles out of the way for a soft serve ice cream with chocolate sauce....all without one complaint.
We have stood next to each other, as we promised to do, in good times and in bad. We have gone through loss and life together.
I have had the pleasure of watching his expression when he first saw his child on an ultrasound, and have seen him prepare to become a father when he thinks no one is looking.
In a few months, it will all change, and our family of two, will become a family of three. I know that these past years, when it has been just the two of us, figuring out how to move through the world, have been the happiest of my life.
Years from now, when we are rocking on our porch together, (and still looking fabulous I might add) alone again after our child has gone, I will measure the success of our life based upon the incredible love and friendship I know we share.
So, as we face this new adventure, I will never forget all the lemon waters, the laundry, the cooking, the pizza's and every home improvement project. For laughing at all my jokes, for making my life brighter and protecting me always, and for looking past the emotional roller coaster ride that is Sarah :)
You have been everything I ever wanted and needed, you have been my center and my home and most importantly my best friend. I never thought I could love anything more then you, until I learned I was having your baby....
So, Happy Father's Day to my baby's daddy!!!
I love you