My boss made us take the Meyers Briggs Personality Test :) Totally blew my cover at work! LOL Now they all know what a screwed up little individual I am :) It's pretty spot on though! Check it out! Those who know me well, will laugh the whole way through this :)
I am an ESFJ = Extraverted, Sensing, Feeling, Judging. Just to know, I scored as high as you can get in the “feeling” category!
Guardians of birthdays, holidays and celebrations, ESFJ’s are generous entertainers. They enjoy and joyfully observe traditions and are liberal in giving, especially where custom prescribes.
All else being equal, ESFJ’s enjoy being in charge. They see problems clearly and delegate easily, work hard and play with zest. ESFJ’s as do most, bear strong allegiance to rights of seniority. They willingly provide service and expect the same from others.
ESFJ’s are easily wounded. And when wounded, their emotions will not be contained. They by nature wear their hearts on their sleeves often exuding warmth and bonhomie, but not infrequently boiling over with the vexation of their souls. Some ESFJ’s channel these vibrant emotions into moving dramatic performances on stage and screen.
Strong, contradictory forces consume the ESFJ. Their sense of right and wrong wrestles with an overwhelming rescuing, mothering drive. An ESFJ at odds with self is a remarkable sight. When a decision must be made, especially one involving conflict, there ensues an in-house wrestling match between the aforementioned black-and-white values and the nemesis of discord. The contender pits self against self, once firmly deciding with the Right, then switching to Prudence to forestall hostilities, countered by unswerving Values, ad exhaustium, winner take all.
As caretakers, ESFJ’s sense danger all around – germs within, the elements without, unscrupulous malefactors, insidious character flaws. The world is a dangerous place, not to be trusted. Not that the ESFJ is paranoid; hyper-vigilant would be more precise and thus they serve excellently as protectors, outstanding in fields such as medical care and elementary education.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Mother's Day
Mother's Day was amazing! I was made breakfast of waffles, fruit, mimosa's...you name it! THEN I was showered with tons of hugs and kisses (my fave!) and was able to relax outside and enjoy our new landscaping in the front and back yard!!! Played with Madison, went for a FABULOUS 1 1/2 hour massage that was MUCH needed! Truly, just amazing! It was relaxing and fun - I really couldn't of asked for a better day!
Monday, May 10, 2010
Tuesday, May 04, 2010
Interesting Horoscope Facts
I like horoscopes, not obsessed with them nor do I think they are spot on 100% of the time but they are fun and sometimes insightful. I would say the one about Madison is fairly accurate. The one about Maddie and me; and Chip and Maddie are about 80% accurate. The one about Chip and I as parents I'm not so sure about- could be wrong but I don't think I have any perfection standards with Madison and I think if there is someone who "knows" when soemthing is wrong with her or about to be wrong with her, it's me! :)
About Madison: The saying "Still waters run deep" perfectly describes your Scorpio daughter or son. Calm as she may seem, there's a lot going on beneath the surface. As her parent, you may never learn all about what makes your little Scorpio tick because these children rarely reveal everything. Scorpio children are strong-willed, passionate, and intense, and the need to feel secure drives them to control themselves and others. A strong, durable emotional connection is one of their primary needs, but, perversely, they may test the durability of that connection, often without realizing they are doing so. Your Scorpio child may seem by turns affectionate, aloof, devoted, obsessive, loving, and manipulative. Scorpios have such range and depth of feeling that you may sense that your child is expressing only the top layer of her true feelings -- and that you could understand her a lot better if only she'd let you in on the secret. Scorpio children thrive on the mysteries of life and have a knack for understanding others' motivations. They might love reading suspense stories or watching horror flicks from an early age, and they'll be drawn to complex friendships that really stretch them.It's all too easy for Scorpio children to be drawn into obsessive, vindictive, and controlling behavior, so be sure to teach your child about the importance of forgiveness as well as forging balanced relationships with other people. If you guide her carefully, you can help your Scorpio child develop interests that will benefit the world at large, as she brings her focus, willpower, and determination to bear.
Relationship between Madison & Mommy: Your Scorpio child is more intense and complex than you are, yet somehow, you understand him. For one thing, your differences balance you out: You provide a solid foundation of trust for your little Scorpio, and he makes sure there's a strong emotional connection between you. In fact, he relies on you perhaps more than you realize, as his need for security is very strong but often hidden. Try not to criticize your child too much. He's more sensitive than he wants you to know, and too many nitpicky comments will undermine him. And when little Scorpio gets upset, watch out! Forgiving and forgetting isn't your child's strong point. When his feelings are hurt, he exercises his power from behind the scenes. You're far more cool-headed -- another difference that either balances you out or pushes you apart -- so your little one's passion will mystify you at times.
Relationship between Madison & Daddy: You're a very good parent to your Scorpio child because you understand her emotional depths. Other people might find your child rather intense or complex, but you sense your little one's feelings intuitively and respond to her needs at that level. Plus, you understand that any manipulative or possessive behavior on her part is just a bid for emotional closeness -- a need you share. Of course, your child is a bit deeper than you are by nature, and her urge to explore the darker side of life might sometimes make you uncomfortable. You'd rather stick with what's familiar, so you don't quite get her interest in secrets and mysteries. Still, let her delve into her experiences in the way that comes naturally to her. That's how she'll learn and grow, and she's lucky to have you standing by, willing to offer soothing and protection as needed.
About Chip and I as parents :) The two of you make a no-nonsense parenting team. Not that you can't relax and have fun. You certainly can, when the time is right. But "work before pleasure" is the principle you'll teach your children and model yourselves. You both need to feel secure and will do whatever it takes to ensure that your family is safe and that your children have the best opportunities you can afford. The Cancer parent is a nurturer, sensitive and emotional. You seem to just "know" when your child is ill or injured. Be careful not to be overly sensitive, though. Don't take offense where none was intended. The Virgo parent is all about standards and perfection. You expect a lot from your kids, and generally they will try to rise to the challenge. Try to remember that they are children, and don't set the bar impossibly high.
About Madison: The saying "Still waters run deep" perfectly describes your Scorpio daughter or son. Calm as she may seem, there's a lot going on beneath the surface. As her parent, you may never learn all about what makes your little Scorpio tick because these children rarely reveal everything. Scorpio children are strong-willed, passionate, and intense, and the need to feel secure drives them to control themselves and others. A strong, durable emotional connection is one of their primary needs, but, perversely, they may test the durability of that connection, often without realizing they are doing so. Your Scorpio child may seem by turns affectionate, aloof, devoted, obsessive, loving, and manipulative. Scorpios have such range and depth of feeling that you may sense that your child is expressing only the top layer of her true feelings -- and that you could understand her a lot better if only she'd let you in on the secret. Scorpio children thrive on the mysteries of life and have a knack for understanding others' motivations. They might love reading suspense stories or watching horror flicks from an early age, and they'll be drawn to complex friendships that really stretch them.It's all too easy for Scorpio children to be drawn into obsessive, vindictive, and controlling behavior, so be sure to teach your child about the importance of forgiveness as well as forging balanced relationships with other people. If you guide her carefully, you can help your Scorpio child develop interests that will benefit the world at large, as she brings her focus, willpower, and determination to bear.
Relationship between Madison & Mommy: Your Scorpio child is more intense and complex than you are, yet somehow, you understand him. For one thing, your differences balance you out: You provide a solid foundation of trust for your little Scorpio, and he makes sure there's a strong emotional connection between you. In fact, he relies on you perhaps more than you realize, as his need for security is very strong but often hidden. Try not to criticize your child too much. He's more sensitive than he wants you to know, and too many nitpicky comments will undermine him. And when little Scorpio gets upset, watch out! Forgiving and forgetting isn't your child's strong point. When his feelings are hurt, he exercises his power from behind the scenes. You're far more cool-headed -- another difference that either balances you out or pushes you apart -- so your little one's passion will mystify you at times.
Relationship between Madison & Daddy: You're a very good parent to your Scorpio child because you understand her emotional depths. Other people might find your child rather intense or complex, but you sense your little one's feelings intuitively and respond to her needs at that level. Plus, you understand that any manipulative or possessive behavior on her part is just a bid for emotional closeness -- a need you share. Of course, your child is a bit deeper than you are by nature, and her urge to explore the darker side of life might sometimes make you uncomfortable. You'd rather stick with what's familiar, so you don't quite get her interest in secrets and mysteries. Still, let her delve into her experiences in the way that comes naturally to her. That's how she'll learn and grow, and she's lucky to have you standing by, willing to offer soothing and protection as needed.
About Chip and I as parents :) The two of you make a no-nonsense parenting team. Not that you can't relax and have fun. You certainly can, when the time is right. But "work before pleasure" is the principle you'll teach your children and model yourselves. You both need to feel secure and will do whatever it takes to ensure that your family is safe and that your children have the best opportunities you can afford. The Cancer parent is a nurturer, sensitive and emotional. You seem to just "know" when your child is ill or injured. Be careful not to be overly sensitive, though. Don't take offense where none was intended. The Virgo parent is all about standards and perfection. You expect a lot from your kids, and generally they will try to rise to the challenge. Try to remember that they are children, and don't set the bar impossibly high.
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